Why Staying Single in College Is Better

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You may be jealous of your friends who all seem to have a significant other attached to their hip, but take solace in the fact that it is actually much better to stay single in college than to be in a relationship. While you may not have someone to cuddle with or kiss goodnight, you will be able to enjoy a far greater range of freedom, allowing you to get an even better college experience than you would if you were dating.

When you are still in high school and deciding on a college to attend, it is infinitely better to not have to consider what your romantic partner thinks. Though it may sound cruel and selfish, having a romantic partner can severely limit your choice of colleges. Some couples who are going through the college application process may decide to compromise and go to schools where they can be close together, which undoubtedly puts a lot of schools out of the running. Even if you and your partner decide to not limit one another on school choices, you will likely unconsciously try to pick a school close to your partner so that you will not be too far from him or her. When you are single, on the other hand, the college choice process is rightfully all about you and what you truly desire, making it more likely that you will choose a school that is the best match for you.

College is a good time to learn and experience new things. When you are single, you are more likely to take chances to meet new people and do new things because you will be focused on expanding your social group as well as growing in general as an individual. Those who are in relationships tend to find it perfectly satisfactory to hang out with one another, so they are not as compelled to reach out and meet new people and make new connections. While this does not mean that they will be friendless in college, it does mean that they are far less likely to make the kinds of lifelong connections that many other college students experience. In addition, while single students can just about make whatever decisions they want – such as deciding to go abroad, or deciding to join the drama group – those in relationships typically need to consult with one another, also slimming down the chances of getting a full experience out of university life.

Finally, relationships are stressful. Whether you are in a long-distance or on-campus relationship, you will get into arguments that will put a strain on your sanity. Studying can be difficult to balance with relationship time, and you may also find it hard to balance your social time with friends with quality time with your significant other. Overall, college is already stressful, so the next time you find yourself lamenting your prolonged stay in Singlesville, remember that being single in college is a blessing in disguise.

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